Believe in Yourself (And Why Nothing Will Work If You Don’t)


I write this article with so much passion behind the subject of believing in yourself and that YOU have the power to achieve and manifest whatever you want in life. Remember, we are all made up of light energy at the end of the day and what we put out in the world is such a powerful thing. That’s not to say you have to be a believer of LOA (Law of Attraction), but we all have experienced how our moods play a huge role in how our day plans out.

So, why does it when you believe in yourself it brings you so much fortune? I believe the power of believing in yourself changes your attitude into motivation and a ‘can do’ attitude. This gives you the spirit to tackle new challenges and also take those risks all because you simply believe in yourself.

 

Are You Determined To Fail?

Do you notice the theme throughout all of the questions? There is an undercurrent of self–doubt and vulnerability. The unspoken thought that drives these questions is, “I don’t believe these ideas will work for me.” Or, stated another way, “I don’t believe I can make these ideas work. I don’t believe in myself.”

Worrying about not being able to implement a few small lifestyle changes is just one, tiny example of this fear. But a lack of belief in yourself will limit you no matter how great the ideas or opportunities are that you are exposed to.

My biggest question to for anyone struggling to believe in themselves is: Why are you determined to make these ideas not work for you? Why are you searching for reasons why these ideas won’t succeed instead of figuring out a way to make something good happen?

The biggest difference between successful people and unsuccessful ones (in health, in business, and in life) is that successful people are determined to make the situation work for them rather than playing the role of the victim and searching for reasons why a situation won’t work.

No idea will work for every person on the planet, but many ideas can work for most people … if you believe that you can make them work. You have to be willing to not just think differently, but to also to experiment with new ideas and trust that you’ll discover a way to make them work.

Believe in Yourself

The biggest difference I’ve noticed between successful people and unsuccessful people aren’t intelligence, opportunity or resources. It’s the belief that they can make their goals happen.

We all deal with vulnerability, uncertainty, and failure. Some of us trust that if we move forward anyway, then we will figure it out. As I sit here writing this article I am going through personal struggles but I’m thankful that I’m one of these people who believe the universe has a plan and what’s meant to be will be.

When finishing college, I was the first one in my family that wanted to move away and be crazy enough to start my own business (with no business knowledge behind me) but I trusted that I would figure it out anyway.

When I was kicked out of my home due to my sexuality and having no home, literally nothing (my story). I still had trust that I would figure it out and carried on believing that one day I’d be successful in whatever I wanted to do with my life.

When I’ve discovered an opportunity that sounds awesome but that I’m not qualified for (which happens often), I trust that I’ll figure it out and go for it anyway.

I believe in myself. This confidence has made the difference for me again and again. I didn’t need intelligence or opportunity or resources. Just a simple belief in myself.

Do You Believe That Change Is Possible for You?

One of the most foundational beliefs of this community is that you can become better.

We believe that it is possible for human beings to improve. We believe that it is possible to raise the bar in your own life even if the world around you accepts average. We believe in ourselves and in each other. We believe that if you want better health or more happiness or a more meaningful job that you can make those things happen. One quote I always refer back to when having a wobbly 5 minutes or having a client who needs some empowerment;

“The universe is your kitchen, all the tools are laid out in front of you. You just have pick up the tools and create.”

And because of this belief, we are willing to test, experiment, and try new things even when we feel uncertain. If you don’t believe that it’s possible to make new things work, then it’s hard to make any progress. I don’t care how good the ideas are, nothing will work for you if you don’t believe in it. And more importantly, nothing will work if you don’t believe in yourself. If you struggle believing in yourself then it might be a sense of unblocked emotion or maybe you’re simply out of sync with your body and energy and need to be aligned. Take a look at my sessions so we can get you on track to believing in yourself and achieving everything you want from life.